A MUST WEARING JEWELRY: SELF CONFIDENCE

“Having talent is fantastic. Having confidence is even more important.” –Robin Sharma

Every human in one way or the other, is unique and possess skills that may be different from others. We all possess talents that we flaunt and some that we hide. But what use is of, your talent if you don’t showcase it just because you feel shy and lack confidence to flaunt or present it.

Self-confidence means trusting yourself by all means, your each decision and your abilities. Self-confidence allows a person to keep negative thoughts and self-doubts at bay. It is different from self-esteem. Self-esteem means having a pride in yourself but self-confidence is freedom from your own doubts.

Below are few points and some examples that will definitely help you to keep self-doubts at bay and embrace your self-confidence.

“Confidence is contagious. So is lack of confidence.”- Vince Lombardi

1. Take small steps– Don’t try to reach the heights at once, you may perish. Take small steps. For ex- If you are a budding poet start participating in your college fests and open mics conducted in your city. This will not only improve your presentation skills but will help you to know your position at the field of poetry and know your competitors well. Don’t directly step on bigger stages, you may experience a mishap. Learn sharply and then start participating in the competitions that avail bigger platforms.

2. Identify what’s stopping you? – If you are shy to give a try to something or showcase the skill or talent you possess, start making a list of points, that’s stopping you to show your abilities to the world.

3. Stop comparing yourself with others– You are doing your best. Always know your worth. Never compare yourself with others, try to learn from them.
“The only person you should try to be better than is who you were yesterday”.

4. Set achievable goals- Set goals that you are capable of achieving. And be persistent towards them. You may face new challenge everyday but no matter what comes your way just keep going. “Goal must always be based upon your resources otherwise it is just a wish. Everyone has a wish but very few people have goals” –Sandeep Maheshwari

5. Never feel shy to ask– The more you ask, the more you get. If you will never ask for things and opportunities how will you get hold on those things. So, feel free to consult the experts and clear your doubts. “He who asks may be a fool for five minutes. He who doesn’t is a fool for a lifetime”.

6. Close doors for all destructive criticism- Wisely close your eyes and ears for all sorts of destructive criticism. Surround yourself with people who motivate you and always encourage you to move forward.
“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”- Eleanor Roosevelt

I hope these points makes sense and will help you in enhancing your self-confidence and stepping towards your definite goals. Start seeing self-confidence as a must wearing jewelry. When you will start wearing this jewelry, no one can stop you from moving ahead.

Reference Books–
1. Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
2. Who will Cry When you Die by Robin Sharma